tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post7069281717235309733..comments2024-01-28T08:40:23.835+00:00Comments on Savoir Weddings: When is the 'right time' to have babies?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14092861590215247818noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-67322751992988991892010-12-09T00:02:10.341+00:002010-12-09T00:02:10.341+00:00I'm pretty sure there is never a right time.
...I'm pretty sure there is never a right time.<br /><br />We shall see...anna and the ringhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061035220548972874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-89355636918927869332010-11-28T15:06:39.300+00:002010-11-28T15:06:39.300+00:0033 is the age i am having in my head, but as we al...33 is the age i am having in my head, but as we all know life is crazy and you never know what will happen.<br />I always thought I want 2 one day. <br />And then there were times where I thought NEVER, I just don't want kids at all.<br />The point is really that you can't plan it too much.<br />And that it needs 2 doesn't make it any easier.<br />I agree with all the others. <br />But just don't worry about it, it will figure itself out.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06527247451021351222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-9344250192534303012010-11-26T11:03:43.034+00:002010-11-26T11:03:43.034+00:00I agree there's no right time, only a few wron...I agree there's no right time, only a few wrong times. A good time is when your best friends are having babies, then you can share the joy together (although you may not stay best friends - people do change). Obviously ideally before 35. But also I would say when you know what you like and how to put on make up in the car mirror at traffic lights!Fiona Campbellhttp://www.fionacampbelllondon.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-58181667247612376362010-11-23T22:55:07.126+00:002010-11-23T22:55:07.126+00:00It's a good question. I'm 38 and wish tha...It's a good question. I'm 38 and wish that I tried to have them sooner especially since I've been with the same person since I was 14! We took our time and here we are. I so wish I would have tried in my early 30s. Oh well, c'est la vie :)THE ALTERNATIVE WIFEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07593507545118567343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-82526529712987924742010-11-23T21:28:15.815+00:002010-11-23T21:28:15.815+00:00You girls are lovely! Thank you for your sweet com...You girls are lovely! Thank you for your sweet comments. We're all going to be kick ass mums when we're ready! xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14092861590215247818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-70159208045081681522010-11-23T20:31:12.510+00:002010-11-23T20:31:12.510+00:00this is a GREAT post! i don't want kids yet, b...this is a GREAT post! i don't want kids yet, but i definitely understand the yearning and confusion. i don't think babies are something you can put on a timeline or a list, life has its own changes you're gonna have to be ready for (either way!). you're going to be a great mom, most of the evidence lies in that you're concerned about being a great mom.lizziehttp://www.10000dollarwedding.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-45853805045237574802010-11-23T19:47:09.013+00:002010-11-23T19:47:09.013+00:00lady
thank you so much for this post
it is so grea...lady<br />thank you so much for this post<br />it is so great to know that someone else is thinking/working through this too. and i'm sure women everywhere are all the time but i really appreciate how honest and real you are about it<br />this has been a discussion lately in my marriage about the "right time" so instead of setting a time frame my husband and i set goals we'd like to achieve before having a baby<br />but even then, will we be ready after those goals are achieved?<br />and are you ever really ready?...whatever that means.<br />i say no...what my husband and i have been dealing with more recently is that we just want to spend time together and when we both look at each other and say we want to have a baby and we feel ready, thats when we'll do it.<br />you are going to be a beautiful mother...whenever the "right time" comesLace.and.Likes.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13983997171757101729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-74957950259341518232010-11-23T13:13:40.772+00:002010-11-23T13:13:40.772+00:00I was told that you're never necessarily ready...I was told that you're never necessarily ready but boy do you try when you're pregnant! <br /><br />I'm past 30 now and actually want to cling on to my selfish life with my husband now. Children are blessings but as lives in formation require full mental and emotional support. I am still globe trotting. shopping, and living my life so it's hard for me to give that up. I have 2 friends who are recent mothers - 1 is an italian and is very much still living her own life still (she also has a helper though) while the other hardly eats, sleeps, or socializes anymore (her 8 month old is quite fussy). I hope to be the former of course and still have my own life. But we'll see!little luxury listhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17630812969476483227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-84891178386668029142010-11-23T11:06:49.022+00:002010-11-23T11:06:49.022+00:00Agree with Eliza - there is never a right time. Pe...Agree with Eliza - there is never a right time. Personally it's the wrong time for me now, lol. I'm 24 and married to my wonderful husband for almost 3 years now and we do get pissed off by all the questions like 'when are you guys gonna pop out a sprog'. It's what people expect of you after you get married. I don't know whether it's because I'm young, but I'm not sure I can cope with the pressure of having a child. I'm a very emotional person and I always think too much about stuff. I would be sh..ing myself when I'll have to let my child go on the street on its own, or if he/she will have troubles at school, or health issues - I'm not sure I can emotionally deal with these situations. Having said that I do want a family and all my friends who have kids say that it's the best thing that can happen in life. I strongly believe that what's meant for you won't pass you by. So I guess, time will show :)Dasha, London wedding photographerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15344456983707946903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-39226667075399039442010-11-23T10:53:36.775+00:002010-11-23T10:53:36.775+00:00What a wonderful response Eliza, I have a full wid...What a wonderful response Eliza, I have a full wide smile on my face now. Thank you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14092861590215247818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287520134349293411.post-66415632185944537482010-11-23T10:52:14.893+00:002010-11-23T10:52:14.893+00:00I was told once that there isn't a right time,...I was told once that there isn't a right time, just some wrong times. It made sense to me. The wrong time for me would be when relationship isn't good, or when you've got major money worries. <br /><br />Ethan wasn't planned. I was about to quit my job, and - having bought the dress 6 months beforehand - I was 14 weeks pregnant on my wedding day. 37 weeks pregnant when we moved to Cornwall (from Kent - not a small move!). I kept the job (seemed sensible) and returned to it when Ethan was 11 months old. <br /><br />I never lost my identity. I am still me - I'm just mummy as well now. And the first few years are hard - children are physically and mentally demanding (and being a SAHM was so relentless) but now mine are 3.5 and 5 yrs old and I'm so happy with my little family.<br /><br />Really? It's not something you'll ever regret, whenever it happens.Elizahttp://elizaclaire.comnoreply@blogger.com